From a life of despair to a promising future with the help of Venture Trust
Before embarking on a Venture Trust course, life for Kirsten Calcott was very unhappy. She had been living at a homeless unit in Fife, and various hostels, since the age of 16 but struggled to cope with managing her emotions due to mental health issues. She had been through the system, tried all sorts of organisations to gain some support but nothing seemed to work.
Kirsten had a daughter in 2012 but her mental health issues continued to dog her. She suffered a mental breakdown in 2014, which led to Kirsten’s daughter being put into foster care.
Things seemed to be turning a corner when Kirsten met her partner whilst on a horticulture course. They moved in together, and Kirsten graduated with merit. In February 2015 Kirsten’s partner died unexpectedly. This left her angry and again unable to cope. She received support from Shelter, who helped her to address her housing situation, and to make tentative steps towards further education. Her contact at Shelter put her in touch with Venture Trust and suggested that enrolling on a Venture Trust programme may help with gaining some control of her life.
Kirsten has not looked back. In July 2015, at the age of 25, she signed up to the Venture Trust Transitions to Independent Living programme, which is designed for those living in temporary supported accommodation, unstable tenancies or considered at risk of homelessness. Currently funded by the Scottish Government and Dulverton Trust, the programme helps participants to develop their confidence, relationships, employability and other skills necessary to secure and sustain permanent accommodation.
Kirsten comments, “I didn’t think Venture Trust would really be able to help. I’d been through many systems and been to too many groups. I thought it was just going to be the same as the rest. But it wasn’t. Venture Trust pushed me to my limits and showed me what I was capable of. It changed me. It helped so much to get away; that was the best thing; being given a chance to think.”
She continues, “I’ve still got problems, but I can deal with them now. Venture Trust gave me coping mechanisms to manage my problems when I got back home. The activities really enabled me to see that there was another way to deal with things. The Red Flag activity has been so good for me. I used to get really angry, but now when I get annoyed, I just see the staff running around on the beach and it makes me giggle.”
Since completing the Venture Trust programme, Kirsten has received one-to-one support from her outreach worker with the aim of achieving some of her goals. She now has a part time job, has just finished college, achieving high grades in the sciences. She has also been accepted at university to study psychology and forensic biology, which starts in August.
Kirsten explains: “I live in student accommodation now, but once I start at university I am hoping to get my own flat. I’m even contemplating swimming lessons and I am really scared of water! Two weeks ago, I walked the East Highland Way with some friends. It took five days and we went through Newtonmore which is where I went canoeing with Venture Trust. I was telling my friends all about it and how I was determined I wasn’t getting in the boat, but I did. I didn’t think I would. But I did it!
I am making efforts to go out with my friends, which is something I hadn’t done for a long while; I am finding this a really positive thing as I am more balanced knowing that I have the support of friends. And I am now off my medication for depression; my plan was to cut down, but I’m off it completely. I am looking forward to becoming a Venture Trust mentor, supporting other people who are struggling to see a way ahead.”
For further information about Venture Trust’s Transitions to Independent Living programme, please visit: http://www.venturetrust.org.uk/programmes/transitions-independent-living/